Today I discuss the various sex issues those of us with Borderline Personality Disorder may experience due to the disorder.
Masturbation & Our Mental Health
Is masturbation good or bad? Can it affect our mental health?
Casual Sex & Our Mental Health
Does having casual sex affect our mental health? Can having casual sex be a symptom of our our mental health issues?
Addicted To SEX!
Today I look at sex addiction and its links to other mental health disorders.
When You’re In A Dark Place
Today I discuss when we feel so low and depressed and what needs to happen. Apologies as little Lottie came downstairs right before I started filming. Im sure I missed loads out from this vid but will possibly touch on it again in greater detail soon x
Reasons We Go Off Sex
Today I look at the mental health reasons behind why we have gone off sex.
Weight Gain in Lockdown
Today I discuss gaining weight in the last lockdown and how this affects our mental health. My book:
Regaining Our Sense of Self
What is our sense of self? Why is it a problem if we don’t really know who we are? How do we regain our sense of self?
Signs of BPD in Children
Today I try to answer a question from a subscriber – what signs might appear in a child who goes on to get diagnosed with BPD.
Protect Your Mental Health NOW – Before a 2nd Lockdown!
In England we are going back into Lockdown from Thursday this week. So many people struggled with their mental health in the last lockdown … today I have some survival tips to help you possibly avoid your mental health deteriorating. sending you all love and hugs. Stay safe xxx
Intrusive Thoughts & How Damaging They Can Be
Today my mind has been taken over with thoughts. I discuss what those thoughts were, what I tried to do about them and the damage these thoughts can have on our lives if we fail to look at them rationally and leave them unchecked.
Parenting a BPD Teen
Today I discuss some strategies when you are dealing with your bpd teenager.
Toxic People – How To Recognise Them
So often we can think someone is a good friend when the truth is they are really toxic for us. Today I look at the different types of toxic people we come across and why they are so bad for our recovery.
Let’s Talk About Sex & Mental Health
I have three things I want to talk about with you today… a sex series is one of them.
In a RELATIONSHIP with a NARCISSIST – What it’s like
Today I discuss what it is like to be in a relationship with a narcissist.
BPD and NPD Relationships
Today I discuss what a typical narcissist and borderline personality disorder relationship would look like and why.
BPD – Why Are Goodbyes So Hard?!
I start discussing this actual topic just after the 5 minute mark fyi! Love you guys xxx
Fathers STOPPED From Seeing Their Kids!
Today I discuss injustice…. when loving fathers are stopped from seeing their children. I have a friend going through this right now and it’s heartbreaking.
Can You Recover From BPD WITHOUT Taking Medication?!
Do we NEED medication to recover from BPD?
Ex Relationships – 2 different topics on exes!
YourGuitarSage – Erich Andreas – my Mum says he’s the best of the best – and my Mum is ALWAYS right 😂 Head on over to his channel and subscribe to learn the guitar for free! Today I do 2 vid requests in 1 vid. 1. My BPD ex left me – will they ever […]
Will I Pass BPD on To My Children?
Those of us with BPD often think about if one day we would like to have children … a big fear is that we may pass this disorder on to them. I tackle this issue in todays video.
Introducing My New Channel…
Famalitics… my new channel xxx
Porn and People not staying home … 2 topics 1 vid!
Today i discuss 2 subjects – people being blackmailed over watching porn and the reasons behind people still going out went told to stay in xxx
The Reason I Posted Crying Face Pic On Instagram
Big Book on Borderline – Amazon usa site Big Book on Borderline – Amazon uk site
When a ‘Friend with Benefits’ Moves on!
The tiktok dance …. My Facebook:
Coronavirus… Armageddon?! Feeling Fear
I start discussing what I’ll be doing in future videos from the 10 minute mark in case you don’t want to hear my thoughts 😂 Love you all xxx
Obsession
Today I discuss obsession… but obsession in relationships rather than general obsession.
Happy 2020 – I’m back & life is gooood!
Last year was a tough one and today I can look back and see where I made mistakes regarding my recovery.
Needing Validation from a crush
This video is incomplete due to my children!
Jealousy, Getting Old and Toy Boys!
Today I randomly chat about a few conversations I had with my friends xxx
Guilt, no balance or routine
I am so sorry for being absent these last few weeks. In todays vid I discuss all the things that have been going on in my brain lately. I love you all and have missed you all so much xxx
When a partner’s family HATE us!
It can be really hurtful when someone doesn’t like us, especially if they have no valid reason for not liking us! So what should we do when in this situation?
When Therapy ENDS
Being discharged from a mental health team or coming to the end of therapy can be really daunting and scary… so what can we do?
Being CHEATED on when you have BPD
Today I discuss bpd and infidelity.
Dealing with PAINFUL experiences in RECOVERY
Today I discuss when life in recovery is painful – how do we cope whilst also remaining safe and well
INVALIDATING our MENTAL Health!
Today I discuss what to do when we have our feelings invalidated.
When someone LIES about you
How do we deal with a situation where someone makes up out-right lies about us and tells these lies to those closest to us?
If on medication are we really in recovery?!
I got asked this question a week or so ago and think it is a great question. I have a strong opinion on this!
Music and our MOOD
Music can depress us… equally it can lift our mood and make us feel happier.
Why are RELATIONSHIPS our downfall?!
Today I discuss how even when everything in our life seems to be ok, when it comes to relationships they can cause havoc in the other areas of our life. Amazon.com – https://www.amazon.com/Big-Book-Borderline-Personality-Disorder/dp/1936268612/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1542812156&sr=8-1&keywords=the+big+book+on+borderline+personality+disorder Amazon Canada – https://www.amazon.ca/Big-Book-Borderline-Personality-Disorder/dp/1936268612/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1542812221&sr=8-1&keywords=The+Big+Book+on+Borderline+Personality+Disorder Amazon UK – https://www.amazon.co.uk/Big-Book-Borderline-Personality-Disorder/dp/1936268612/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1542812298&sr=8-1&keywords=the+big+book+on+borderline+personality+disorder
Sweet but psycho … me?!
Today I discuss why many women with bpd are seen as psychopathic or crazy. Is there any truth in this? Why would people think this?!
Fighting the ageing process!
Today I talk about how getting older sucks! I recently read a magazine article about Katie Price AKA Jordan and I couldn’t help but feel sorry for her. She is desperately trying to hold on to her sex symbol status and won’t accept that she is getting older. We ALL have to age and when […]
A best friend, crush or favourite person?
Today I look at how I differentiate between a crush, my best friend and my favourite person.
Financial Implications & Guilt
e often act impulsively – whether its drink, drugs, binge eating, shopping or gambling. We partake in these things in order to make ourselves feel better – but inevitably we always feel worse. What should we do about this?
Friends Leaving Us Out (And my EX makes an appearance!)
What would you do if two of your closest friends, who you do everything with decide to go hang out without you? Hurt? Betrayed? Angry? Today I discuss this.
BPD & Eating Disorders
Today I discuss my own personal experience with an eating disorder and talk about how I overcame it and the link between bpd and eating disorders.
Living Alone with BPD?
Why is Living Alone So Hard for those of us with BPD?
Overcoming Obsession!
Today I give a couple of tips that can help with obsession. The_permanent_marker – Christo Botes – the man that is doing my tattoo tommorrow! Check out his instagram!
Night Terrors & BPD
Today i discuss night terrors, their causes and how to overcome them.
Changing Our Mind/Quick Results!
Last time I discussed how we can change our mind regarding dreams of the future, jobs, education etc. Today I discuss how we can change our mind multiple times in a day. I also discuss how not getting immediate results can also lead us to give up on things.
BPD and always changing our mind!
Why do we start something only to stop?!
Anti-social Personality Disorder & BPD Relationship
Today I discuss the type of relationship that someone with BPD would likely have with someone with ASPD
You CAN recover from BPD!
Today I explain my recovery and how any of you can also recover! https://www.amazon.co.uk/Big-Book-Borderline-Personality-Disorder/dp/1936268612 https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/40974539-the-big-book-on-borderline-personality-disorder?ac=1&from_search=true
A BPD/NPD Relationship
Today I look at how the bpd and npd traits can either boost one another or destroy one another.
An NPD & BPD Relationship
Today I take a look at when someone with NPD gets in a relationship with someone with BPD.
Why are Talented People often Depressed or Anxious?!
Today I give the names of the 5 winners of the giveaway. I also discuss how I get a lot of messages from people, either top students, amazing athletes, musicians etc who are so depressed and on the verge of quitting.
Medication Making BPD Worse?
I finally start to answer this question 6 mins in to vid … but what I explain first is relevant and will help you understand the point Im trying to make!
Free Giveaway As My Book Launches Tommorrow!
Please go to www.unhookedmedia.com and go to their Shop. Scroll down and click on The Big Book on Borderline Personality Disorder… there is a form you can fill out. Fill in your details for a chance to be chosen at random to win either a copy of my book or a course on bpdtribe! Good […]
My ‘BPD’ Break-up?!
Today I answer some of the comments in my last video – was the BPD to blame? Isnt it too soon to say my kids are happy? Are my bpd traits resurfacing?
Lets Set Some Goals!
Christmas is nearly here and I know a lot of you are probably dreading it. Therefore I thought we would start making some plans for the New Year and begin to motivate ourselves!
Quick Update
Please head over to Dr Todd Grande’s channel, cast your vote and ask your question!
Strong Personalities
How do we deal with people with over bearing personalities? They can cause us to feel so intimidated and uncomfortable.
Dr.Todd Grande Answers YOUR BPD Questions!
Today I had the opportunity to chat with Dr Grande and ask him all of the questions that you requested me to ask. Dr Grande specialises in the field of cluster B personality disorders, as well as trauma and drug and alcoholism just to name a few! His channel is covers everything from mental health, […]
Impulsivity and the Power of Being Thankful
Today I discuss 2 topics – impulsivity and gratitude.
The Big Book On Borderline Personality Disorder
Today I give an update on how close my book is to release date. I also give a list of the chapter titles so you have a better idea of what is included in the book. Amazon.com – https://www.amazon.com/Big-Book-Borderline-Personality-Disorder Amazon Canada – https://www.amazon.ca/Big-Book-Borderline-Personality-Disorder Amazon UK – https://www.amazon.co.uk/Big-Book-Borderline-Personality-Disorder Amazon Australia – https://www.amazon.com.au/Big-Book-Borderline-Personality-Disorder
Sexual Trauma
Today I discuss my own experience with this and the affect it has on me even to this day.
Problems We Face In Recovery!
Nobody said recovery is easy – and we often come across hurdles along the way – but we CAN recover! Today I discuss some of the problems that arise in our recovery.
BPD & Tiredness
Today I discuss how I believe my BPD contributed to my extreme tiredness and also my procrastination!
BPD & the Embarassing things we do!
Today I discuss some of the more embarassing things we do because of our BPD traits!
LiveStream on YouTube: BPD Tribe
Today I discuss the nee website that is launching soon, empowerment and I try to answer some questions! Dont forget to go to my other video about asking a Dr a question! If you have a question for Dr Grande please ask it in the comments section of that video! Xxx
BPD and Empathy
Today I discuss whether those of us with BPD are highly intuitive, perceptive and extremely empathetic OR whether we lack empathy.
What questions would you like to ask a Dr?
I have a collaboration coming up at the end of this month with Dr Todd Grande. In the collaboration I will be asking him questioms for him to answer. So – if you have a question you would like answered by a Dr, then please ask it in the comments below this video!
Having an ‘episode’ & ruining the night!
How often do we go out for a special occasion, whether it’s someone’s birthday or a wedding etc, and we have a meltdown and cause a huge scene, ruining the night for everyone there. Why do we do this and what can be done about it?
The Law of Attraction
Today I discuss the positives and negatives of the law of attraction.
Our Soul’s Purpose
Even if you do not believe that we have a soul, you can still have a purpose – even if you choose one and give it to yourself. Today we discuss the positives of having a purpose in life and how we discover what that purpose is.
Reincarnation, Regression & Mental Health – Episode 2
Today I discuss reincarnation. Could something that happened in a past life contribute to the issues that we have in this life? Could past life regression be the answer?
An Introduction to The Spirituality Series
Today I kick off ‘The spirituality series’ with the first episode. You do not to have to be religious or spiritual to benefit from this series. This series is here to introduce new topics to you, to help you ask questions and for you to use as a basic guide in your recovery from your […]
I’ve Had An Idea… (Livestream)
I’m considering doing a series of vids on spirituality – this could include topics such as reincarnation, meditation, visioning, journaling. The wonderful thing about spirituality is you choose your own path – there is no right or wrong. You do not even have to consider yourself spiritual to benefit from spiritual practices such as mindfulness […]
A Video Guest – Chris Discusses his Addiction Story
Today we have a video guest – it is Chris from The Rewired Soul. Chris is in recovery from his mental health and addiction and today he tells us his story. Chris’s channel is all about ‘Talk about the problem but FOCUS on the solution’. Today he educates others on these topics and shows people […]
Discussing Past Problems
I had an opportunity today to chat with my daughters class teacher and give him any information that helps him gain a better understanding of my daughter. It felt really freeing to be honest…I spent so many years being dishonest and today I don’t need to be. Opening up with someone can be really enpowering.
The Importance of Recovery
I dont think I ever really considered the importance of recovery to start with. But it really is a matter of life and death. We need to take recovery seriously. Why are some people able to overcome addiction and others struggle?
Reactive Attachment Disorder & BPD
Today I discuss RAD and whether or not BPD could be the adult version of this disorder.
Embarassed About Our Past
When we come in to recovery we can look back on our past with new eyes – what we see often embarasses us as we hardly recognise ourselves. How can we overcome this?
A Partner’s Best Friend
If a partner has a best friend if the opposite sex (or same sex if they are homosexual) – can they be trusted? Is it ok? Or will it send us crazy?
Can People With BPD Have Casual Sex?
Due to our BPD traits can we simply have casual sex? Or do we get too emotionally involved? Or maybe we find casual sex easier than intimate sex. Today I discuss this and try to answer the question.
A Video Guest – Trey Jones – Anxiety!
Today we have Trey Jones doing a video for us. Trey’s channel is linked below – please please go and check it out and subscribe for loads of helpful and informative videos! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC2fgc5EQmUVHsPibTlIX7cQ
Medication
Today I discuss the meds Ive been on – the ones that have worked and the ones that haven’t.
A Medication WARNING!
More and more of us are looking at our diets and trying to live a healthier life – a variety of fruit maybe one thing we try to include daily. But…did you know that the innocent looking grapefruit actually has hidden dangers – one of them being that it interacts with certain medications! Today I […]
How To Get An Ex Back!
Today I discuss when we (those of us with BPD) decide we want to get back with an ex – what should we do and what should we not do?
PAST LIVES & Our Mental Health
Today I consider something that has played on my mind for many years – could the reason I am the way I am today have something to do with an experience in a past life?
A Video Guest – Cory from The Borderline Life
Today we have a guest doing a video for my channel. Cory is on her recovery journey from BPD and is someone I have much respect for. I hope you guys enjoy her video and don’t forget to check out her channel! Link Below : https://www.youtube.com/user/featherbullet1983
Not Everyone With BPD Is The Same
A quick vid today guys as Lottie is refusing to let me film!
How to Guide A BPD Ex Back Into Your Life
I get asked this question a lot. Unfortunately there are times when a person with BPD leaves a genuinely loving and supportive partner. It is these partners that I hear from, asking me how they can persuade their ex to come back. Today I discuss this topic.
What To Do If You’ve Told A Lie And Regret It
I have had multiple messages from people in the same situation – they have told a lie to someone they love and now regret it but are too scared to open up and be honest in case their loved one abandons them.
Are We Entitled To Be Angry And Cutting Toxic People Out Of Our Life
Today I do 2 video requests. Whose fault is it when we feel awful? If we struggle with pain from our past and therefore lash out at family members – are we entitled to? Should cut toxic people out of our lives? Yes! How do we do that?
How To Overcome BPD Without Medication & Treatment
For many of us with BPD, the help just isn’t available, whether that’s due to where we live, finances or waiting lists. Does that mean recovery just isn’t possible? Nooooo! We can still recover and today I discuss this in todays video. I also discuss my new website, bpdtribe.com, which will hopefully be launching in […]
Skills To Eliminate Fears & Change Negative Core Beliefs
Today I discuss some helpful skills that can help you to let go of your fears and unhealthy core beliefs.
Our Unconscious Mind, Core Beliefs & Fears
Today we take the first step on removing any unhelpful and unhealthy core beliefs and fears that keep us trapped, unable to progress with our recovery.
Mental Health & Our Unconscious Mind
Did you know that 95% of our brain activity happens at an unconscious level. For those of us with mental health issues, BPD, addiction etc. this is HUGE. We are literally being run by a mind that we are not even aware of!
Mental Health & Law Of Attraction!
Today I discuss law of attraction. I discuss it in religious, spiritual and scientific terms. I personally have experienced law of attraction and today I share that with you.
Seeing How Our Illness Affects Our Family
We can be left with so much guilt and shame when we see the hurt that our BPD causes our family. Our families just want us to be well – but often when we see how hurt they are we can get so caught up in the guilt that we forget to focus on the […]
Cutting Someone with BPD Out of Your Life – To do or not to do?
How do you gently but firmly let someone with BPD know that they need to try and stop getting your attention? Tgis very much depends on the relationship you have with the person with BPD and in what way they are causing you to feel as if you have had enough.
Validating Our Emotions
In todays vid I discuss how we can have our feelings invalidated and the negative affect it has on us. I also discuss how loved ones can validate how we feel and the importance of this in helping us to self regulate our emotions.
My Relationship With My Ex
I got asked to discuss how my relationship with my ex-husband was and is today. Do we co-parent well or are there still issues today? Our relationship was intense and unstable from the beginning and eventually we divorced. I used cocaine throughout our marriage and he hated me using drugs.  Today myself and my ex-husband […]
Stealing Other Peoples Personality Traits
Those of us with BPD often find that we copy other peopes look, personality and even behaviour. Why do we do this? What is the reason behind it?
Symptoms of BPD Vs Normal feelings
Today I discuss how we tell the difference between being rightfully upset over something or whether we are just being overly sensitive. Do we isolate because we are generally busy or are we isolating on purpose? What about when we have a partner who constantly blames our BPD for our symptoms?
Coping After A Break-Up
Break-ups are hard for anyone, let alone when we have BPD and extrememly intense emotions. Today I give some tips on how to get you through the aftermath of a break-up.
BPD, Dissociation and Psychotic Episodes
Do people with BPD suffer with forms of psychosis? Today I discuss this aswell as Dissociation. A BPD trait is feeling paranoid and/or out of touch with reality. Dissociation is our brains way of protecting us from emotional pain. It is often formed in childhood due to trauma…but in adulthood it only causes us to […]
BPD and jobs, frustration, self-preservation and suicide attempts
4 vid requests today. 1st – good jobs or career choices for those of us with BPD. 2nd – Feeling misunderstood and getting frustrated and impatient at others. 3rd – Putting our guard up to protect ourselves 4th – What led to my suicide attempts.
Lashing out in anger, Bpd Traits vs Full BPD Diagnosis & Teens with BPD
3 vid requests in one today. 1st vid discusses how we can lash out in a complete rage and what we can start to do about this. 2nd vid discusses the fact that most people can tick some of the BPD trait boxes at some point in their lives. 3rd vid discusses teenagers with BPD […]
BPD – Favourite Person & Fear of Abandonment
Today I do 2 video requests – 1. Having an F.P (Favorite person), what’s healthy and what is not. 2. How Fear of abandonment can manifest in us. Don’t forget to click the link below and sign up to be notified of personal appearances, events etc. The more of you that sign the more likely […]
What Does A Healthy Relationship Look Like?
Unstable relationships is one of the traits of BPD. Our relationships can be so unhealthy that we lose sight of what a healthy relationship looks like. In this vid I discuss traits of a healthy relationship and some steps we can take to have one.
Recovery!
Today I discuss recovery – mainly things we can put into practice today and self-soothing techniques that work for me.
In recovery & seeing people from our past
Today I discuss how it feels to see people that we used to hang around with – back when things were bad. Once we are in recovery how do we cope when seeing ex-friends etc.?
Understanding your child or partner with BPD
Those of us with BPD can behave in such a way that loved ones are left feeling helpless. Today I try to help loved ones understand the nature of BPD and give tips on how they can take care of themselves.
BPD – “Who am I?!”
Today I discuss the BPD trait Unclear or Unstable self-image. Many of us struggle with this, to the point where we don’t know who we are. We wear a ‘mask’ and adapt to our surroundings, desperately trying to fit in, but to the point where it is detrimental to ourselves. Below is the link so […]
BPD & Relationships
I discuss how the different traits of BPD can impact our relationships, causing them to be unstable. Fear of abandonment, black and white thinking, unclear self image – they all affect our relationships.
BPD – Teenage Years
Main vid starts at about 5 mins 50 secs! Today I discuss how I knew I had something wrong as a teenager – but others didn’t agree, thinking I was hormonal.
DBT – The Beginning & The End
Today I discuss my journey with DBT. The difficulties at the beginning, how I didn’t think it would work for me and how eventually it did. I also have a favour to ask of you! Message me on instagram, twitter or facebook. Links to my social network pages are on my channel homepage.
Shame, Recovery, Jealousy & Toxic people
Today I discuss 4 different topics in one video. 1st: Feeling ashamed and embarassed after an outburst. 2nd @ 7.50 mins: My recovery experience – how I was then to how I am now. 3rd @ 17.45 mins: Partners dealing with a jealous bpd partner and 4th @ 22.27mins: Toxic people in our lives.
My Book….and my NEW website…coming soon!
Hi my lovelies – if you are interested in pre-ordering my book which comes out at the end of the year you can now do so if you go to www.unhookedmedia.com . You can also sign up for notifications about any events I may be attending. Also… myself and my good friend (and publisher), Megan […]
Bullying
Today I discuss the impact of being bullied and give you some advise around what you should do if a) you are being bullied now and b) you have been bullied in the past.
Catastrophising!
Today I discuss what is going on for me at the moment – catastrophising over two kittens that I don’t even have yet!
Anxiety over how others view us & the physical & mental effects of therapy
We can often believe everyone is out to get us or judging us and this can cause us anxiety. Therapy can be physically and mentally draining but it is so neccessary for our recovery.
Bereavement – How to Cope With Losing A Loved One
When someone we love passes away we can be left absolutely devestated. For those of us with BPD the emotions we experience are so intense and all consuming and we often turn to unhelpful coping mechanisms such as self-harming, drinking or using drugs. Today I discuss helathy ways of coping with grief.
BPD: Not Coping With Change & Trichomania
Today I discuss 2 separate topis – how those of us with BPD freak out over the smallest change and then trichomania, which involves picking our hair or skin.
BPD and Boredom
I believe when we think we are experiencing boredom, it is actually the BPD trait chronic feelings of emptiness. We can all experience this trait in different ways.
BPD In A Nutshell
Today I brieftly discuss the 9 traits of BPD and how it is possible to recover from this devastating mental illness.
Fear of Abandonment – BPD
Fear of Abandonment is a core trait of BPD, although lots of people who don’t have BPD do still have this trait. Today I discuss my fear of abandonment and a few skills on how to overcome it.
BPD and the Brain
Today I finally got my flip chart out to do a little brain workshop with you! I discuss the Limbic System (amygdala, hippocampus, hypothalamus) and the pre-frontal cortex and cortisol.
Constantly In a Crisis – BPD
A lot of us can find ourselves in a vicious cycle of being in and out of hospitals – how do we break this cycle?
BPD and Rage…And…Starting your own YouTube Channel
Two vids in one today guys. I will be discussing the intense rage of us with BPD and also discussing the pros and cons of setting up your own mental health YouTube channel.
How Are You Guys?!
Just a quick live check in to see how you are all doing and check you are keeping safe.
Coping In A Crisis Over Christmas Part 2
Today I discuss the DBT Skills Wise Mind ACCEPTS. Practice the distraction skills often to see them become easier to use when you need them most.
Coping In A Crisis Over Christmas Part 1
Today I discuss the DBT Skills IMPROVE the moment.
Dealing with Difficult Family Members
Christmas is a time when we often see family members whom we only see once a year. Sometimes there can be family disputes or awkwardness – Here are a few ways to cope over the Christmas period.
Imposter Syndrome
Imposter syndrome is so common – it is when we feel like we are an imposter, a fraud and we fear that we are going to get found out.
Fear Of Missing Out – FOMO
It’s that time of year where ‘everyone’ seems to be going out and having the best time or buying the best presents – and we can be taken over with a fear of missing out – we want what they have. We forget a lot of what we see on social media is an illusion […]
Some Christmas Advice
It’s now December 1st and or stress levels can start going through the roof. Christmas can be a difficult time of year and I discuss that and offer some advice.
A Healthy Crush Vs Obsession
What is the difference between a crush and being obsessed with someone? When has the line been crossed?
Being Obsessed with Someone
Throughout my life I have suffered with the odd obsession over someone. Today I discuss these obsessions and give advise on how to stop obsessing.
BPD and Rejection
Our fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, bad self image and paranoia all add to how we can perceive something to be rejection. And rejection hurts – a lot!
Histrionic Personality Disorder Vs Borderline Personality Disorder
In this video I explain the HPD traits and then discuss the similarities and differences between HPD and BPD.
Follow on from the NPD video
Today I answer a few questions raised in my last video on Narcissistic personality disorder.
Narcissistic Personality Disorder Vs Borderline Personality Disorder
Comparing the 2 cluster b personality disorders – I look at both the similarities and the differences.
Anti-Social Personality Disorder Vs Borderline Personality Disorder
There are lots of similarities between these 2 personality disorders – but there are also some key differences. Today I discuss them in this video.
The Different Personality Disorders
I apologise that my little girl is babbling in the background! I will make sure she is asleep next video! In this video I discuss the various traits of the 10 different personality disorders.
Is This A Borderline Thing?
I have always wanted to know the ending to films – the ending to books etc. Only then can I relax and enjoy what I’m watching/reading. Also – I absolutely can NOT watch anything sad – not even cartoons! I am really sorry guys but I repeat the story of the hippogriff in this video […]
BPD and Obsessing Over A Partner
I used to think a partner could fix me and make me better…so long as they did what I wanted them to do. If they did something that upset me I would threaten to self-harm – if they still didn’t listen to what I wanted I would then go ahead and self-harm and then I […]
BPD and Sexual Promiscuity
An impulsive reckless behaviour that we may exhibit might be sleeping with strangers. We want to feel loved and secure and often mistakenly think sleeping with someone is the answer to that – which is never is. In fact it more often than not makes us feel so much worse.
BPD and Cannabis
Can cannabis be used to medicate our BPD?
BPD, Anxiety, Panic Attacks, and OCD
People with borderline often have another disorder – whether it’s depression, anxiety or all of them. Panic attacks are scary – but our body is reacting normally – the problem is when we perceive something to be a threat – and it is not a threat. Our anxiety is not justified.
BPD – Thinking Of Having Children In The Future
I have had a lot of people ask me about this so thought I would do a video on everything from deciding to have a baby, too pregnancy and afterwards.
My Advise On Anti-Borderline Channels!
There are some channels on BPD out there that paint us in a really negative light. Here is my advise on this subject.
BPD, Clinginess and Jealousy
With BPD we have a fear of abandonement, we have low self esteem – and we have intense emotions – it’s no wonder we start feeling jealous and then acting on it. We really do need to learn to rationalise things though because our jealousy and clinginess often pushes those we love away.
BPD and Addiction
I believe I was addicted to drugs and alcohol as it was my coping mechanism to help me deal with my unstable moods and intense emotions. Once the bpd was in control the addictions went away.
BPD – Me and My Mum
I’ve finally persuaded my Mum to join me in a video! Â in this video I ask her questions and she advises both famiily members of those with BPD and also those with BPD.
Depression
What is the difference between a low mood and depression? How does depression appear outwardly. I forgot to mention in the video that sometimes .I would literally feel nothing when I was depressed – I was numb inside.  Often  when we are depressed we do not even know we are depressed.  If you think you […]
2 Borderlines Dating or 2 Addicts Dating
If you are in a relationship with someone who has the same disorder as yourself it is going to be a difficult relationship – especially to start with. Â I give you some tips on how to make it work.
Is Recovery Possible If Not Offered DBT?
Not everyone is offered DBT – sometimes people are on a waiting list for 2 years or more and other people can’t afford it. What does it mean for these people? Should they just give up on recovery if they are not offered therapy? Absolutely not! Recovery is possible for everyone.
A Year Into Therapy And Some BPD Traits Are Resurfacing
I have been through this where as I have been in recovery a while and all of a sudden feel like the BPD is back!! That is not the case though and is all part of the recovery process. Â If you are going through this just keep going! You are doing AMAZING!
Jealous Of Everyone
I spent years and years eaten up with jealousy and resentment. I never realised my jealousy goes all the way back to when I was a child.  It is with hindsight that I can see where  I was jealous and the reasons for my jealousy.  Recovery has helped be let go of the negative feelings. […]
The BPD Label – Good Or Bad?
Do I believe in the label of Borderline Personality Disorder? Should we get diagnosed or are we better without being labled?
The Positives Of Having BPD
We can read so many negative points to having BPD – it’s about time we started to look at the positives – and they are there! We need to focus more on them.
BPD and ‘Friends’ Who Don’t Understand Us
There are friends who don’t understand BPD and ‘friends’ who just don’t want to understand it. Â I discuss the differences in this video – and what makes a good friend and what doesn’t.
The School Holidays – No Routine, No Time, Messy House!
The school holidays are always a struggle – especially the summer holidays as they go on for  what feels like forever. Here are a few things I do to help me cope!
BPD, Attatchment and Separation Anxiety
I could get attactched to places as well as people. Â When I would be separated from someone or some place I was attactched too I would be filled with anxiety.
BPD and Domestic Abuse
When I googled this topic  all I could find was info on people with bpd being the abuser. A lot of times it is the person with bpd that gets abused though.
BPD and Loneliness
I used to be consumed with loneliness and I really didn’t believe I would ever feel differently. I was so alone and so desperate and yet I didn’t know what to do to escape this feeling.
The Black Sheep Project
I have been fortunate enough to be helping with a new charity that has been set up in the US. Â In this video I get to explain all to you!
Being A New Mum When Having BPD
I know how hard it is being a new Mum especially when the borderline personality disorder is not being managed. Lack of sleep, bad food choices and extreme emotions all play a big part, I discuss in detail the problems we have and ways we can help ease them.
Things I Do For A Partner That Could Lead to Me Feeling Used
I have always been a people pleaser and always wanted to be the ‘perfect partner’. But when they were not the perfect partner back I would be resentful and angry.
Dealing With Intense Anger
Most people feel angry at some point in their lives – it becomes a problem though when we can not control this anger. I discuss some coping strategies in this video.
Embarassing Ourselves In Front Of People
Throughout my life I have had many embarassing situations . Â My BPD caused me such intense emotions and I did not know how to control them – and it didn’t matter who was around.
Over-Sharing – Is It A BPD Thing?
My whole life I have been an open book and told everyone everything aboutmyself – this has caused me so much hurt in the past. Today I am selective (believe it or not considering I have a TY channel!) with who I share information with and what information I share.
C-PTSD Vs BPD
There are ‘people’ that say c-ptsd is the same as BPD cormorbid with PTSD. I discuss the similarities and the differences in this video.
Why Are Female Borderlines Disliked By Women?!
My whole life I have had trust issues with women – is this a BPD tthing? Is it justified? Do other women really not like us?
The Differences Between Male And Female Borderlines
There have been studies done looking at both the differences and similarities between men and women with Borderline Personality Disorder. I discuss these differences in this video.
First Ever Boyfriend and BPD
Hindsight is an amazing thing.  Back when I was 14 I thought I had met the love  of my life and he could do no wrong.  It is only looking back now that I can see the relationship for what it was – abusive and unhealthy.
Does Therapy Work For Everyone – And What If You Don’t Like Therapy?
I HATED therapy to start with so I Â understand how others feel regarding this. Â Here I tell my story and how therapy can help everyone. Â I believe we can all take something out of therapy no matter how big or small – but how much you put in effects how much you get out.
BPD, My Kids and Me
I received a comment the other day from a lady who had been really hurt by her BPD mother. Â Whilst I understand her hurt and anger I have to disagree that all people with BPD are the same. Â I discuss my own children in this video and why I don’t believe I minimize things in […]
Borderline Personality Disorder & Lies We Tell So People Like Us
I have fabricated stroies most my life so people like me. I would also agree with anything anyone said just so they would accept me. I didn’t have my own opinion – and if I did I’d keep it to myself. In the end I didn’t even know what stories were true and which ones […]
Stigma Towards Those With BPD
All mental health has stigma attatched but for some reason BPD has a  bigger stigma attactched!
Why Do People With BPD Perceive Things Differently?
The way I would interpret what people would say had a big impact on the way I would then react and behave. So why do we perceive things differently to non-BPD’s?
4000 Subscribers! Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!!!!
A massive thank you to all my subscribers! Â I literally want to hug and squeeze you all! Â Big Love xxx
Do Us Borderlines Contribute To The Stigma Surrounding BPD?
Without meaning to do us Borderlines alienate ourselves from other people and cause them to think badly of us? #stigma #mentalhealth #bpd #borderlinepersonalitydisorder #bpdstigma
Borderline Personality Disorder & Compulsive Lying
Are Borderlines all compulsive liars? Why is there a link between BPD and lying?
How To Survive A Break-Up
When someone leaves us we are left feeling absolutely heartbroken. Â If you also struggle with your mental health chances are you will find yourself not knowing how to cope.
The Vicious Cycle of Breaking Up and Making Up
I have been in this vicious cycle many times and it is so hard to break the cycle – but it is possible. Â If the relationship is really unhealthy it is important you learn to break the cycle.
Anxiety Regarding Recent Events
We are living in a world where we are constantly hearing about terror  attacks.  This can either heighten our anxiety that is already there or give us anxiety if we don’t have it. How can we manage this?
Suicidal Thoughts And How To Control Them
If you are having suicial thoughts and you do not feel you can keep yourself safe please go to your local A&E, your doctor, a family member or friend. Â Do not isolate and stay on your own.
When Will You Be Ready To Stop Therapy?
I got asked if  life is going well and you are feeling good about yourself – is it time to stop therapy?
BPD and Social Media
Social media can be addictive and also make us feel mixed emotions and less than. Â I discuss the negatives of bpd here.
Impulsivity and How It Manifests In Borderlines
Impulsive Reckless Behaviour is a trait of BPD. When we think of this we think of drink, drugs, sex etc. This is not the only way it manifests though.
My Opinion On Self-Diagnosis
I got asked what my opinion is regarding self-diagnosis and I discuss that in this video.
High-Functioning Borderline Personality Disorder
What happens when a ‘high-functioning Borderline’ can not function?  Also – is there even such  thing as a high-functioning borderline?
Bullied, Shot, Now Struggling With Mental Health
I have done this video for a guy who messaged me. He was bullied and was shot and ended up in a coma. Â Thankfully he survived but is now really struggling with his mental health.
Is Having A Mental Illness Cool?
More and more people are feigning having a mental health illness – why is this?
Mild, Medium and High BPD
Just like BPD manifests itself in different ways eg. extrovert, quiet bpd etc. there are also different levels of BPD which I discuss in this video.
What If You Are Addicted to Your Illness?
The thought of recovery scared me to start with – BPD was my life – it is all I knew.
Voluntarily Putting Ourselves In a Mental Health Unit
A lot of people have a fear around mental health units and would never even consider admitting themselves on to a ward voluntarily! But could this attitude acctually stop us getting the help we need?
How Long Into Therapy Before Loved Ones Start Noticing A Change?
Once someone with BPD starts therapy, partners can often hope to notice changes within weeks – unfortunately it is not that simple.
Are People With BPD Good In Bed?
I have heard this time and time again – Borderliners are wild in bed! But how true is this and if true why is this?
BPD – Flying Off With Emotion And Thinking About It After
So often our emotions become so intense that we just react suddenly without worrying about the consequences.
How Do We Stop Screaming, Yelling and Sobbing Uncontrollably?
Sorry this video wasn’t out last night guys – I have spent the past few days vomiting and sleeping! Hope you are all well xxx
Therapists, Psychologists and Group Therapy
Today I discuss how my therapists, psychologists and group therapy helped me but also when something isn’t working.
BPD and Our Parents
How do our parents feel about our BPD? Do We blame them? Can we talk to them about it?
Am I Scared I Will Pass My BPD On To My Children?
I believe BPD is partly genetic and partly due to our upbringing. I was asked if I was worried that I will pass it on to my kids.
BPD and Coping With The In-Laws
We can suffer with black and white thinking and push our inlaws away – how can we cope with this especially if they don’t  know we have BPD.
How to Seek Help If You Think You Have BPD
How do you go about getting help for BPD if you think you may have it but don’t yet have a diagnosis?
BPD And Extremes We Go To For Proof Of Love
Sorry the sound isn’t great in this video – I mustn’t have connected the mic properly. Throughout nearly all of my relationships I would test my partners to see if they loved me – a lot of the time they weren’t even aware that I did these tests!
BPD and Hypochondria
Why would we suffer with hypochondria? Could it be because we are crying out for attention?
BPD and Twisting Words, Projection and Manipulation
Nobody likes to admit that we can do these things – but unfortunately I have done all of them. Â I do not believe it makes us bad people though – we act in desperation.
Do Love and Emotional Connections Feel Weaker In Recovery?
Believe it or not BPD has some positives! The deep love we feel is one of them. I did not want to lose those feel-good feelings when I came in to recovery.
My Family Do Not Accept I Have BPD
Some people just do not believe in Mental Health unfortunately and this video discusses your options if one of those people include a family member.
Cancelling Plans, Making Excuses and Isolating
I was one of the worlds best at making excuses not to go out. This  can become very isolating though and unhealthy.
“My BPD Partner Cheated On Me”
I often here from men saying their bpd wife/girlfriend has cheated on them and they don’t know what to do.
Borderline Personality Disorder & Bipolar Disorder
BPD and Bipolar can seem very similar at a first glance – here I discuss the similarities and differences. I am no expert on bipolar however and if you think I may have gotten something wrong please feel free to tell me and I will correct it in another video!
BPD and Misdiagnosis
Considering how many people suffer with BPD it is surprising what a high number of people are actually misdiagnosed before being diagnosed as having borerline personality disorder. Here I discuss some of the reasons for this.
What Causes BPD?
There are a few different theories on the cause of BPD which I discuss here.
BPD and Self-Hatred
For years I hated myself and recovery from this was a slow process – but it is possible as today I know longer hate myself.
Medication for BPD and Our Mental Health
I have previously done videos on meds but decided to recap on things as I have been asked a few time to do a ‘medication video’.
Being A Stay At Home Mum
Being a Mum is hard – let alone when you also suffer with your mental health. This video explains why it is important to make time for you and how you can do that.
The Support I Got In My Pregnancy
I get asked a lot if people with BPD or mental health issues should be having children. I would say yes – but support is so important. I was under a special team of midwives called the Sunshine Team and they helped me get through my pregnancy safely.
10 Things Recovery Has Given Me
Sorry Guys – this video was supposed to be up on Friday but I’ve had problems with my laptop! All sorted now (thanks to my amazing Step-Dad!) xxx
This Pregnancy Has Effected Me Physically And Mentally!
A quick update on my own mental health!
BPD – Feeling High For No Reason
I used to feel like I was on a complete high at times – times when I hadn’t actually taken anything. I would be completely hyper – but eventually my mood would crash and it was awful.
How Can You Tell A New Partner You Suffer With Your Mental Health?
When should you tell a new partner you have a mental health issue – or should you even tell them at all? If you do tell them – how should you do that?
Telling Our Kids About Our Mental Health
Should we tell our kids about our mental health and if so how do we do it?
BPD – Anger Issues With Our Kids
How do we stop ourselves taking our anger out on our kids?
BPD – Coming On Too Strong And Scaring People Away
I always needed to be liked – I couldn’t bare the thought of someone not liking me – and I would go to extreme measures to get them to like me!
BPD – I Felt Like A Child All The Time
I seriously thought I was like Peter Pan. I just did not feel like I had grown up at all. I felt like a lost child stuck in an adults body.
BPD – When We Shut People Out To Focus On Our Own Way Of Recovery
There were times when I would try to develop my own way of recovery by fixing on things. When I did this I would distance myself from my loved ones and be quite cold and cut off from them.
Why Do People With BPD Move On So Quickly From An Ex?
When I broke up with someone I could be devestated one minute only to have completely moved on the next. Why do we do this?
BPD, Memory Loss and Dissasociation
I started dissasociating at a young age and the memory loss soon followed – both short term and long term memory loss.
Did My Family Notice a Big Change When I Recovered?
My Family think I am a completely different person to who I used to be. But it can be hard on families to believe we truly have changed.
BPD and Black and White Thinking / Splitting
Living with black and white thinking can leave those around us on eggshells as they never know when we are going to ‘split’.
The Dark Side Of Porn
Sorry to do another porn video guys! In this video I discuss how porn can be really destructive to relationships.
Setting Boundaries
Us borderliners can cause a lot of hurt to our loved ones. How much should a loved one put up with? Â What should they do when we kick off?
Building Your Self Esteem
I had to do this video with my 2 year old on my lap who had just woken from a nap!
Fixing on Porn and Sex
Here I discuss some of  the issues we have with sex – intimacy, promiscuity, low self esteem etc. We can also use porn as a way of getting our needs met without the worry of intimacy!
Finding Out Your Partner Watches Porn
I can remember the feeling of betrayal and deep hurt I felt when I discovered an ex watched porn.
Constant Feelings of Lonliness, Emptiness and Isolation
I always felt different and could be in a room full of people and still feel lonely.
Feelings Of Guilt, Shame and Feeling Undeserving
I Â spent so many years feeling guilt and shame and feeling like I deserved love from nobody! Luckily I don’t feel like that today!
BPD – Devaluing and Ignoring Those We Love
I could be so cold to the people whom I was supposed to love the most.
Comparing Yourself To Others, Loss of Self, Self-image and Not Feeling Good Enough
I was like a chameleon for  years – constantly trying to adapt to be like others around me – to the point I didn’t even know who I was or what I liked.
BPD – Sex, Disgust, Anger But Scared They’ll Cheat
I used to have real issues around sex which I explain in this video.
What If Someone Has BPD But Refuses to Admit There’s A Problem Or Get Help
What if someone you love who you either think has BPD or has been diagnosed refuses to get any help? What if this person is a parent? What are your options?
BPD Traits But No Diagnosis
What if you have some of the BPD traits but not enough to get an actual  diagnosis? Would DBT help?
BPD and PMS
How does the ‘monthly moods’ effect you differently if you have borderline personality disorder?
Borderline Personality Disorder and Work
I always struggled in the work place. I used to feel people were against me a lot, especially other women. I struggled to hold down a job.
Borderline Personality Disorder – Genetic or Environmental?
In this video I discuss my childhood as well as trying to answer this question.
Agoraphobia, BPD and Bulimia
There was a time I couldn’t leave my home. I hated myself and I isolated. Life is not like that for me today luckily so I know there is a way out.
Borderline Personality Disorder, Jealousy, Clinginess and Idealising
I was an extrememely jealous person who would cling on to both partners and also friends!
Borderline Personality Disorder and Motherhood
Do all BPD parents damage their children? Is this a general rule or in extreme cases?
Self-Harm Scars…When Our Children Ask About Them
I have personal experience with this as I have been asked by my children what are the scars on my arms. Obviously I can not tell you exactly what to say or even if how I deal with it the right way but this video explains how I tackle this subject.
Q & A – BPD
Question 1: Is only 6 months of DBT worth it? Question 2: How do people with BPD deal with being broken up with and also how do they break up with others?
BPD and Being Jealous of Your Partner’s
I used to HATE the fact that a partner had a past. The thought that they had been with anyone else (even though it was before I’d ever met them!) made me feel really angry at them!
The Recovery Process
Is Recovery Easy? How long does it take? Will it get any better?
Finding Out I Had BPD – before and after
In this video I discuss how  I felt before I had a diagnosis, how and when I got a diagnosis and how it made me feel after.
BPD and our Non-Functioning Times
With BPD we can have times where we start to feel normal – and then the low hits and we are unable to function.
BPD and Cheating
Do people with BPD cheat more than other people? Can the BPD make a person cheat? What should you do?
BPD and Rejection
Do Borderliners get  rejected more than most people, or does it just feel that way? How did I cope with rejection and how do I cope today?
Being a Parent Whilst Suffering With Mental Health And/Or Addiction
It is so hard whilst dealing with your mental health or  addiction issues when you are a parent – so what should you do?
Quiet Borderline Personality Disorder
Quiet Borderlines express their intense emotions differently to someone who is a ‘normal’ BPDer!
Borderline Personality Disorder and Pregnancy
If you are pregnant and the BPD is not being managed chances are you are going to struggle. Do not feel guilty or ashamed by this — instead talk, talk, talk and get the help you need.
Codependency
Do you think you are in a codependent relationship? Do you want to save someone else? Do you think you can’t live without someone else? This video briefly explains codependency.
What Medication Works For Me
I keep getting asked what meds I am on. Â I decided to do a video on it to finally answer people BUT I must point out that what works for me might NOT work for you! Also, I am not a doctor!! I can not tell you what meds will work well for you!
What Is Borderline Personality Disorder?
I use a chart to explain BPD. I have done a similar video ages ago but thought I would update and re-do it!
BPD Recovery Needs to Come First
If you want to have a great job, relationship etc and you are really struggling with the BPD, you need to put those things on hold  for now and focus on your recovery.  Once the BPD is under control you can have all those things that you want and finally enjoy life.
Relationship Mind-Games
I talk about the games I would play to try and hunt out ‘evidence’ that my partner was cheating!
BPD and Sex
In this video I discuss borderline personality disorder and sexuality…and my issues!
Family Members of People With BPD
What do Mums, Dads, siblings of people with Borderline Personality Disorder go through?
Borderline Personality Disorder – Picking my skin and hair!
I do not know if many others have suffered with this but I did for years so thought I would do a quick video on it to see if anyone else can identify!
How to Have a Healthy Happy Relationship When You Have BPD
What things can you do to help you have a healthy, happy relationship whilst also struggling with Borderline Personality Disorder?
BPD and Friendships
Today I talk about what my friendships were like when I was struggling with BPD and how my friendships are nowadays.
Loving Partners of People with BPD
What does a genuine loving partner of someone with BPD go through and what should they do  – stay and support their partner or walk away?
My Messed Up Relationships and How Different My Relationship Is Today
My previous relationships were always so unhealthy and unstable. I suffered severe jealousy, rage, neediness and always felt I needed to be with someone as I was too scared to  be on my own.  Luckily my relationship today is very different.
Borderline Personality Disorder – A few statistics
I have received so many comments from people who are truly desperate and feel so alone and I felt compelled to do this  video. I want you to know you are NOT alone – I even looked up statistics to see just how huge BPD is! I feel on a bit of a mission now […]
Is Borderline Personality Disorder for Life?
When I was first diagnosed with BPD I was so scared that this was it – this was how the rest of my life would be. Â Luckily that wasn’t the case – bpd is treatable and manageable and you can go on to lead a happy fulfilling life. Plus you get to meet my boyfriend […]
The Beast of Borderline…Borderine Personality Disorder
I often felt like I literally had a beast that lived inside of me.  When I had an ‘episode’ I would turn in to the most vile, nasty person…and yet that is not who I was.  I have now managed to ‘tame my beast’ with the  help of learning skills – and I know that […]
Living with Borderline Personality Disorder
In this video I hope to explain to loved ones of someone with BPD just what it is like to live with on a daily basis.
Family Members of Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder
In this video I discuss how family members of people with borderline personality disorder can deal with the bpd sufferer and what is helpful and unhelpful.
Suicide
I did this video for anyone out there that has or is considering suicide. Â I had multiple suicide attempts over the years and it is only now that I am so grateful they were unsuccessful, as life has so much to offer me now. Â There was a time when I thought I would never escape […]
Being Bullied In My Teens
In ths video I talk about when I got bullied at an all girls school and the effect it had on my life.
Having Borderline Personality When I Was A Teenager
In this video I explain how I struggled with my emotions throughoout my teenage years and I didn”t know what was wrong with me.
Medication and Do We Need It
In this video I discuss my views on medication for mental health illnesses.
Self Harm
In this video I talk about my self harming and why I would do it.
Post-Natal Depression
In this video I talk about when I suffered post-natal depression.
Pre-natal Depression
In this video I discuss how I suffered pre-natally with my third child.
How Anxiety Affected My Life
In this video I explain just how much anxiety controlled my life.
The Physical Effects of Anxiety
In this video I explain what would happen to me physically when I was anxious.
Anxiety and What Would Go Through My Head
In this video I talk about my thoughts when feeling anxious.
Depression and How it Effected Me Externally
I talk about how I would behave and what I would do when I was depressed.
Depression and How I Felt Internally
In this video I talk about how I felt internally when I was depressed.
Borderline Personality Disorder – Fear of Abandonement
In this video I talk about my constant fear of being abandoned and what I do to try and stop this from happening!
Borderline Personality Disorder – Catastrophizing
In this video I talk about how I catastophized about everything!!
Borderline Personality Disorder – Violent Outbursts
In this video I talk about my previous violent outbursts and how my temper was uncontrollable.
Borderline Personality Traits – Intrusive thoughts and paranoia
In this video I talk about the intrusive thoughts I have had over the years and how they affected me.
Borderline Personality Trait – Bad Self Image
In this video I talk about the borderline personality trait of bad self image and how it affected me over the years.
Borderline Personality Trait – Relationships – Intense and Unstable
In this video I talk about the borderline personality trait, unstable and intense relationships.
Borderline Personality Traits – Intense Emotions
I talk about the Borderline Personality Trait – Intense Emotions – and how they affected me.
Borderline Personality Traits – Impulsive, reckless behaviour
In this video I talk about impulsive reckless behaviour that I had including drug use, alcohol and shopping.
A description of Borderline Personality Disorder
I explain what borderline personality disorder is by drawing a graph – it was explained to me this way when I did the STEPPS course.