I have done this video for a guy who messaged me. He was bullied and was shot and ended up in a coma. Thankfully he survived but is now really struggling with his mental health.
hi my lovelies today I'm doing a video request for a guy called the hills and I noticed he had put a comment at the bottom of one of my videos and saying something he'd got shot he wants to kill everybody and I managed to find her on Instagram and I sent him a private message and he asked me to do a video because basically what's happened he got really really bullied he only looks like a young lad it's been really bullied and he got shot and he was in a coma and since he has come around he is overthinking everything and [Music] probably really angry at the world and that's what I got from the comment of my video that this person is really angry like and I kind of replied like yes I will do this video and oh my god like I'm not surprised you feel the way you do and I got bullied at school and I have done a video on that now in that video I say like how I got bullied is nowhere near obviously as bad as what's happened to this guy this poor guy but I'm 35 years old now and the bullying that kind of took place was probably 12 to 15 16 and it stuck with me till I was about 30 like I had this deep hatred for those girls I felt like they'd ruined my whole life and and I would often think about it so I said I'd do this video and I am NOT like obviously trained I cannot tell you what to do but this video is going to be quite short and for the simple fact I don't want to advise you wrong all I can do I can give you my advice if you're in this situation this has happened to you and one I would say you need therapy you need to talk about what has happened to help you process everything because being bullied can bring up so many different emotions you can get the anger you can get the hatred and it just completely knocks your self-esteem and your knocks your confidence you can kind of feel ashamed embarrassed basically so many negative negative feelings and the thing is unfortunately these feelings will stick with you unless you do something about it now obviously going out and killing everybody is not the answer um you'll end up in prison like you don't deserve that and it's not going to change what has happened to you and what you'll find is like if you reacted to say you went out and beat the people up that did it or kind of like a revenge attack you won't it even though you think yet I've got my own but you won't feel better because what happened to you still happen to you and you've got to kinder you've got the opportunity to come out the stronger person from this stronger than those losers that did that um but you have to process it and I would say to do that you need professional counseling um not from like someone like me I'm not a professional and someone that knows really what they're talking about and knows how to advise you properly but do not just think this will go away on its own do not think that if you act on this it will go away because it won't won't you do need counseling I think anyone that gets bullied they should automatically like especially if it's a happened at school the school should be offering counseling like and not just one counseling session this needs to be ongoing therapy where you work with a therapist and and like I said process what happened and realize it's not your fault unfortunately these things do happen but you can get over this you really really can and I never ever thought over being bullied again I know like me getting bullied at school is very different to someone that has been shot I do appreciate that but all the more reason that you need proper counseling proper therapy because I didn't have that happen to me I just got bullied as verbally the lead I wasn't even physically attacked I got barged in the corridor like and like it was horrible and I wasn't shot and that still stuck with me till I was like thirty years old so that stuck with me like 16 17 18 years so if you've been through this not only are you going to have all those feelings chances are you also might be suffering with post-traumatic stress disorder you have had a huge thing happen and it is very very traumatic and so my advice I would speak to your doctor tell them how you're feeling be completely honest and talk to someone close to you about how you're feeling just don't bottle it up because bottling it up is going to be the worst thing you can do say and I really really hope you are okay I felt when I read your message and I really I felt really bad for you I did and that's why I just wanted to get this video John today I mean I replied to the message this morning and this video will probably I think it's going out actually Genoa I might publish it this week and because it's only a quick one and I might publish it today actually yeah I might do that and but yeah please please don't don't do something that you're gonna regret that's going to come back to harm you because you have been harmed enough you need to be kind to yourself and by being kind to yourself you need to get yourself the right help so I am sending you lots of love anyone else out there that has been in a similar situation even if you haven't been sure but you have been really really bleep easy please look into getting help because you do not have to live with this for the rest of your life you don't but you need to let it go in a healthy way and you will need a professional to able to do that sending you lots love guys bye
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