Just like BPD manifests itself in different ways eg. extrovert, quiet bpd etc. there are also different levels of BPD which I discuss in this video.
hi my lovelies today I am doing a video request from Leanne talking about mild borderline personality disorder medium personality disorder and high personality disorder and the differences now I have done a video before about the quiet borderline basically there's two people just because we might all have borderline personality disorder it does not mean it manifests itself in the same way for example you have the extrovert borderline who lets everyone know that what's going on like outwardly self-harming not caring if people see and major anger issues getting into fights but you also have the quiet borderline who still has borderline still has fear of abandonment still has the hot low and high mood swings they play exactly the same but instead of releasing it externally so they internalize it and they might take themselves to a quiet place and self harm and not tell people and it the way it manifests is just different and there is also different types in fact that some people might have a more mild case they still tick all the boxes but someone with mild borderline personality disorder chances are their BPD is my old they themselves high functioning they can keep a job and they can have a relationship yes there might be argument and ups and downs but not to the point that every relationship they has falls apart and they just move on they can kind work through often is the case they have a supportive partner and and so although they have the traits they are maybe not strong so the way manifests is a lot less than someone who has medium or high borderline personality disorder and someone with mild they might have that fear of abandonment and have a big route that they might not necessarily storm out the house go and sleep with someone going self-harm go and use loads of drugs it does not affect their life to the point that they can't function basically because they can and for this reason a lot of people might have BPD and never get diagnosed because they are not really they don't really make themselves known they don't end up in a hospital every week I think it might be it's more picked up more and from if they are working with a doctor or their loved ones noticing that they go through stakes of being depressed the mood swings and because they can still have the mood swings but it just I suppose it won't they won't have the outburst with it the crisis point on if they do they will stay in and cry and so they're close loved ones might notice and say you need to see a doctor you seem depressed and from speaking to a doctor and it might kind of come out that the relationships a bit like this and they feel down and also so sometimes it comes to the attention when they say maybe they had abuse as a child neglect as a child because we do know although this isn't something you have to have had to have borderline it is quite common in border liners so a doctor might think we'll hang on you've had this kind of past you're feeling depressed to relationships I'm stable I mean it's not they can't keep it but it's a bit right and that's why it would then come to the doctor's attention but other than that it might never they might never get diagnosis because it just doesn't come to anyone's attention someone with medium is they might be able to hold down a job for a certain amount of time but it won't last same with relationships they might be able to hold down a relationship for a bit but it's still up and down and the medium board liner will self-harm they might attempt suicide but this is probably few and far between and and it's possible that all the times that they do try that is when it then comes to the doctor's attention they come to the doctor's attention and they may get a diagnosis and when talking with the doctor whereas someone with high BPD they are the opposite someone with mild complete opposite they are not functioning at all they cannot function their life they can not hold down a job they cannot work they cannot hold down a relationship eh to go from one to one to one to one regular suicide attempts regular self harming and and yeah they just cannot function all the BPD is completely out of control completely takes over their life so obviously someone with high borderline they're usually the ones that get the diagnosis because we are where if we kind like we just show ourselves by turning for hospitals regularly either self harming and either attempting suicide so we get their attention we can have therapy we can get our diagnosis whereas there are others out there that have it but maybe not the extent and if they can function a bit they're less likely to get diagnosis and recovery in all three cases is still possible and actually it's probably it doesn't really make sense but it's probably more likely in the person that is high BPD for the simple fact that they get the diagnosis quicker they get off a therapy quicker and so they can start working on their recovery but that is just entirely my opinion I think I haven't read that it's more likely because maybe someone with low BPD has little way to go but I just think if they're less likely to get diagnosis they're less likely to know what they're suffering with so they won't go down the recovery route that is my thinking but it might be false it might be wrong and it probably is so yeah that is the three different different ones I was reading somewhere that like you get the extrovert BPD you get the introvert the quiet BPD and if something is it transparent BPD and I was reading somewhere in there saying basically there's LA lots of different types and maybe they're actually different illnesses but they're all kinda being put together as BPD and maybe they are different for that's for another video and actually I can't do that video cuz I don't know enough about it no nothing about it absolutist what I said that is all I know and I didn't even know if it was transparent or translucent actually just ignore that last bit ignore it right I'm gonna go bye guys
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