I got asked to discuss how my relationship with my ex-husband was and is today. Do we co-parent well or are there still issues today? Our relationship was intense and unstable from the beginning and eventually we divorced. I used cocaine throughout our marriage and he hated me using drugs. Today myself and my ex-husband try to put the children first and we get on as well as we can. To get to this point has taken us time and patience and it certainly wasn’t overnight.